Strong attraction, solid eye contact and stimulating conversation. Easy, flirtatious, first date bliss.
And then… He doesn’t call.
No invitation on a(nother) magical date. No followup email or text message. Radio silence and goodbye forever.
Maybe he got a cancer diagnosis the next morning. Maybe his ex showed up on his doorstep that night and he said yes. Or maybe, he didn’t feel what you felt. -- Bummer, I know, but it’s possible.
And even though you will more than likely never know the full reason, all is not lost. Here are 4 possible ways a first date dead-end could actually be a POSITIVE, spiritually uplifting experience, that propels you forward:
#1. You are not a problem to be fixed. If they were your One, they would see that. It doesn't matter if there were a couple awkward moments. Or you told a story they couldn't relate to. Or you stuttered. What someone else finds embarrassing, your One will find endearing. What someone else interprets as insecurity, your One will see the courage in your vulnerability.